So here is what I think the differences are between the perspectives of the soul and the perspectives of the ego. In my view, if the ego is kept on check, the soul will lead us to a life that is a lot more peaceful and fulfilling, with less drama.
Being eternal, the soul has no sense of time and therefore is in no rush to experience or accomplish something. Since, it lives in the present, life is an adventure where every experience is welcome. Joy is the natural state of the soul. Love is the soul’s North.
Being vulnerable and finite, the ego rushes through life and has trouble living in the present moment. Being here, it wants to be there. The ego gives us the experience of fear because it lacks faith in own capacity to create and survive hurdles.
SENSE OF SELF:
Being boundless and unattached, the soul has no sense of roots and property… therefore, for the soul, sharing is not an issue. Being alone is not an issue. Change is not an issue. Asserting needs and standing ground are just natural things to do to maintain healthy relationships. When the individual lives, sees life from the perspective of the soul, life is good. For the soul (and I think many people has it wrong) it’s okay to use the pronoun ‘I”… to share experiences, to teach, to support others. The soul uses it to say, “this is what has worked for me, you may want to try too” and not to say, “this is the way you should be doing things because I know better.”
The essence of the soul is freedom. Instead, possessiveness is not uncommon for the ego and it extends to ownership of land, water, animals and people… which the soul would never consider owning. The ego swings between extreme defensiveness and privacy to extreme fusion, dependency and symbiosis. From depression to grandiosity. An ego that is disconnected from the soul, experiences fear of losing what it has the illusion of possessing. For the ego, nothing is safe, we’re not enough, we don’t have enough.
SENSE OF RIGHT AND WRONG:
The soul can very well discern right from wrong but makes no judgment, condemns not. Understands that inhabiting the body makes individuals susceptible of making mistakes. Errors are mere stumbling stones, learning opportunities, moments that demand changes. Everyone deserves a second, a third and a fourth chance. Taking responsibility is not an issue for the soul. It’s ready to own its actions and consequences.
SENSE OF COMMON UNITY (or community):
Since the soul understands that we’re connected, parts of a whole, different aspects of the same universe, there is no point in competing. Adding and multiplying are better options than subtracting and dividing. The soul’s way to do things is by supporting each other, not by eliminating competitors. For the soul, there is no vertical ladder, we’re all in a horizontal path, each one standing on a different stretch of the path.
SENSE OF PRIDE:
Instead, for the ego, pride is grandiosity, an inflated sense of self and therefore, it is destructive. It is out of pride that bigotry, abuse, hate, despise, envy and greed are born.